Dear Friends,

I do not know what I should do. What I mean is that should I tell him what I feel or should I keep it to myself? If I tell him, I am scared that I may hurt his feelings. I am scared that he may get the wrong idea of me. I do not want him to think that I am expecting something from him or he may thinks that I do not allow him to go and have fun with his friends. I don’t want him to have that kind of thinking. I want him to think that I am a type of girl that I am not a greedy girl who always one to have the first priority or who like to control his way of style. I want him to have his own privacies too. I believe that he also want to enjoy and spent his single days before married.

Ok, enough of this area. Let me tell you what makes me need your opinion. I hope that you can tell me what I should do after I tell you.

Well first of all, he plans to go KL with his group of friends during August. But at the same time, he got other interference like:

1) Financial

2) Setting up him new business

3) His favourite bike (servicing, tires, collaborator & chains)

He ask me for opinions should he go or not due to all the above. My answer was that it is up to him to decide if he thinks that he can handle all the situations above then I suggest that he should go ahead with his plan and further more he already had planned it & it will be a waste if he never go for it. I want him to go, have fun and relax because he have been working so hard till he, himself got no time and it’s time for him to take a break & let his partner to take over his place for awhile since he have already taken his break for one month.

Actually, what makes me want to share is that, he plan to go KL on my birthday. That is 17, 18, and 19 (Fri-Sun). I do not know if I should tell him or not. I just do not know what to do. When I mention this to my best friend, she told me try to give him a hints through SMS. But I do not know if it is the right way of doing it. In my heart, he should know that my birthday falls on that way. I think that he have forgotten due to his stresses & tight working hours. I do understand but what makes me sad is, does he really forget when my birthday is…do I need to remain him…??? Or do I just kip it to myself just because I do not want to hurt his feelings.

Am I doing the right way??? Please help me out….I really need your help, advice & opinions…

need your help, advice & opinions…